Introduction
The opening talk
This is the welcome video for the constellation work. Until it lands here, everything you need is written below — read it once, slowly, before day one.
Recording in the studio
What this work is
A family constellation is a way of looking at your family as one system instead of a list of people. In a system, nothing disappears. A debt someone never spoke about, a business that failed, an inheritance that split the family — it all stays in the room. You feel it as a mood around money, not as a memory.
That is why money habits repeat so precisely. You watched how the adults around you held money before you could count it. You learned who was allowed to have it, how much was safe, and what happens to people who ask for more. Those rules were never written down, so they were never questioned. They just run.
Over the next 21 days you name what you inherited, thank it, and set it down. Each practice is short — five to ten minutes, done at home, with things you already own. You are not fixing your family. You are ending your turn at carrying it.